Feeling drained by not sleeping and giving a lot of energy to helping out with English class, I did not want to go out for coffee with Jonathan. After spending the better part of an hour talking to Leah about how much I was missing life in Canada, I got myself ready to meet Jonathan at Casa del Pollo--a five minute walk from our apartment. When I got to the restaurant, there was not even any wait staff to be seen. As I sat on the concrete half-wall outside the patio, I said a quick, half-hearted prayer, "Lord, I don't have the energy to do this right now and I wouldn't be surprised if the little coffee time ended poorly. I just don't feel like I can invest much of anything."
Jonathan and Sandra, both 27 years old, have been married for 2 years. Jonathan is a chef at a restaurant in city center and Sandra isn't working at the moment. I saw the two of them walking up the street about 5 minutes after I had whispered my faint prayer. I motioned that we go sit in the restaurant and they both said no. Jonathan told me that we could have coffee at his house which was just behind the restaurant. How could I refuse?
We turned the corner, passed a little store front and made a right down the alley. After passing two barking dogs (a sight so common I would have barely noticed them if Jonathan hadn't told me their names!), they both pointed to a quaint little brick house no more than twenty feet away. They invited me in and offered me a candy from a pretty cool candy jar on their coffee table. Their two bedroom house was well furnished and well kept, considering the budget they are on. Jonathan makes approximately $250 a month and they pay $130 a month rent! We conversed as best we could for about an hour and forty-five minutes. We covered everything from their personal backgrounds to the kind of music they like to the breakfast menu that Jonathan prepares at work. They are both quite funny, so we had a great time laughing at our language difficulties and joking with each other. It was like a really bad, bi-lingual game of charades!
The charades got serious when I asked what Sandra was up to during the week. She proceeded to tell me that her 62 year old father was recently diagnosed with Cancer (from what I could tell, it was some kind of abdominal cancer that was pretty serious). She said that she had spent the previous two days helping out at her mother' house five blocks away because her father had chemo treatments on Tuesday and Wednesday. We talked a bit about the effect that it had on her family and then moved to brighter. more cheerful topics. I was able to communicate to both of them that I will be praying for him (don't know his name, but please join me). They were quite appreciative. I later learned that Jonathan is nominally Catholic and I'm not sure what Sandra's background is.
Nearing the end of of time at their house, Sandra stepped out to put some money on her cell phone. When she returned, we sat a the table and had a quick cup of coffee and some crackers. Supper? Ya, this was likely all they could afford and their hospitality was a humbling thing. I used Sandra's phone to call Alicia to let Leah know I was going to English class with them and we headed out to catch the bus. On the bus we continued our humorous game of get-to-know-you. As the conversation played out, I noticed the young mother in the seat across from us laughing along with us. We included her in our conversation, handed her a piece of paper about English class, and Jonathan and Sandra explained it to her. When the bus reached the stop in front of the Bible Institute, this young mother and her six year old son hopped off the bus after us. Apparently, a free English class was a good idea and mom thought she'd try it out. As she joined the class, the laughter continued. She told me that it was only her and her son--no father or other children.
These are the people that the English classes exist for--the Jonathan and Sandra's who are trying to get their feet under them and the Elizabeth's and Brian's who are just scraping by. If learning English can help them down the road, than count me in! Travis has said that he is not teaching English to be the best teacher out there. He is doing it to build relationships and share the love of Christ. Teaching English is simply the tool...
Speaking of tools, we had another new student last Thursday night--a migrant laborer named Louis. We met Louis after Travis told the taxi driver to stop early one day. We had just passed the mass of migrant workers waiting at the outdoor market to see if anyone would pick them up for a day's work. Len (Travis' dad and mom are visiting now) spotted of one of them reading a "How-to-Speak-English" textbook. We walked over to the man and Travis had a short conversation with him. While he was talking, half a dozen other men came over to see what was going on. One of them was Louis. He was handing out handshakes and quite humorously exclaiming, "Hey man, how are you? (with a Spanish accent of course). Never did I expect to see him at English. And then the door bell rang. There was Louis. "Hey man, how are you?" I had the privilege of helping out in class that night. Boy was he eager to learn. Turns out, he is from Azogues and comes into Cuenca looking for work. I told him that I'll be in Azogues on the 19th and he was quite surprised. If he returns on Wednesday, I'll invite him to come to the little space that the church rents and participate in a worship service with us. With a little prayer...even a half-hearted, faint whisper of a prayer, maybe the Holy Spirit will prompt him to show up!!!
The lesson this time (one of many I'm sure): God is greater than we will likely ever know and desires to use us to impact lives for eternity. May he use you in ways you least expect!